California Pastor Builds Faith and Community For Cancer Survivors: A Q &A With Pastor Rhonda Holbert

By Pastor Rhonda Holbert

1. Let’s begin with your story. How did your breast cancer diagnosis and treatment journey unfold?

In 2001, after my friends received free mammograms at a health fair, I decided to join the “big girls’ club” and get my first mammogram, too. Shortly after, I received a letter saying the doctor wanted me to come in for an ultrasound. 

During the ultrasound, they checked my left breast due to an undetermined mass. Though I asked them to check the right breast (since I was already there), they declined because I didn’t have any symptoms. The ultrasound determined the mass on my left breast was only a cyst, and I later received a letter saying all was well on both sides. 

Strangely, a few weeks later, I noticed my right breast was red and hot to the touch. I felt a small mass on my right breast. Unlike what most ladies are told to look for, the mass did not feel like a pea, it felt like a small muscle, and it felt hot. It felt like wearing a tight bra that leaves a red ring around your rib cage, except the discomfort never went away. 

I made an appointment to go back to the doctor on what turned out to be a historical tragic day – September 11, 2001. The streets of Los Angeles were strangely quiet. There were no airplanes in the sky, and living in Inglewood, the sound of airplanes is part of the city acoustics. Despite advice from a friend to not go to the appointment, I thought, “If anything else happens in the world today, I would be closer to the doctor than they would be.” 

Eventually, I was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) at the age of 40. The initial shock and fear were overwhelming, but I quickly realized that I had a fight ahead of me. The diagnosis came with hard treatment plans, including chemotherapy, surgery, and radiation. 

Each step of the journey was challenging, but my faith, family, and community provided me with the strength to persevere. The experience was a turning point in my life, transforming my perspective and deepening my commitment to helping others navigate their own cancer journeys.

2. Many people find it challenging to move forward after a diagnosis. What motivated you to transform your experience into something that helps others?

Before my appointment to discuss the results of the screening, I had time to pray and talk to God about what the conversation would be. Since I was not aware of breast cancer in my family, the possibility of the diagnosis was not on my radar. So, I had peace when I arrived to the appointment.

My initial motivation was not giving cancer authority over my life. While on the journey, the friends and I brought joy and laughter to every chemo treatment which lit up the room each time.  Don’t get me wrong, cancer is a serious matter, but having a positive attitude and perspective helped me and others that I met on the journey. 

I felt a profound sense of gratitude for the support I received. I realized that many people facing similar diagnoses did not have the same network of support, leading us to exchanging phone numbers and support one another. 

When I finished my treatment, it was time to celebrate and encourage those I met along the way. I hosted a dinner and the party theme was “Let your hair down or take it off.” This event inspired me to create Celebrate Life Cancer Ministry. My motivation came from a desire to turn my pain into purpose, and ensure that no one has to face the cancer journey alone.

3. We’re eager to hear about your current projects at Celebrate Life Cancer Ministry. Tell us about the work you do to improve health and wellness for others.

At Celebrate Life, our goal is to create a community of care that fosters healing and resilience. We offer a variety of programs aimed at supporting cancer survivors and their families. We provide patient navigation services, educational workshops, and wellness programs that focus on holistic health. Our initiatives include support groups, fitness classes, and nutrition seminars – all designed to empower individuals to take charge of their health. Additionally, we host family fun nights and an annual Caravan of Hope, a mini-parade that celebrates all cancer survivors. We collaborate with local organizations to raise awareness about cancer prevention and early detection. 

4. How do you feel your work is impacting those affected by breast cancer, whether by providing support, raising awareness, or creating resources?

The impact of our work is evident in the stories and feedback we receive from the community. Many survivors have shared that the support from Celebrate Life has been a lifeline during their treatment and recovery. By providing practical resources and emotional support, we help individuals feel less isolated and more empowered to manage their health. Our awareness campaigns and educational programs have also contributed to increased screening and early detection, which are crucial in improving cancer outcomes. The ripple effect of our efforts extends beyond individual survivors to their families and the broader community.

5. Many people affected by cancer want to give back. What advice or guidance can you offer to those who wish to use their journey to make a positive impact on others?

My advice to those wanting to give back is to start with their personal strengths and passions. Whether it’s sharing your story, volunteering, or starting a support group, there are countless ways to make a difference. It’s important to remember that every act of kindness, no matter how small, can have a significant impact on someone’s life. Connecting with local cancer organizations like Celebrate Life Cancer Ministry and exploring opportunities to get involved can be a great first step. Most importantly, stay authentic to your journey and let your experiences guide your contributions.

6. Continuing to help others while managing personal challenges is admirable. How do you keep yourself motivated and energized in your mission?

Staying motivated and energized comes from seeing the positive changes and hope we bring to others’ lives. My faith is a constant source of strength, reminding me that I am part of a greater purpose. Additionally, taking care of my own health and well-being is crucial. I practice self-care through regular exercise, healthy eating, and taking time to rest and reflect. Surrounding myself with a supportive community and staying connected to my passion for helping others also keeps me inspired and driven.

7. Looking ahead, what future goals or projects are you planning to pursue to keep making a meaningful impact in the breast cancer community?

In the future, I aim to expand our outreach programs to underserved communities, ensuring that everyone has access to the support and resources they need. We are also developing new initiatives focused on mental health and wellness, recognizing the importance of holistic care in cancer recovery.

Shepherd’s Manor is a day-stay for cancer survivors and caregivers who simply need a place to chill and breathe. We look forward to allowing cancer patients to come the day of chemo and go home in 5 to 7 days when they feel better. One of the things we have noticed is many supporters are available the day of chemo; however, that is not always the “bad” day. Shepherd’s Manor will bridge that gap of time.

Additionally, I hope to collaborate with more organizations to advocate for better cancer policies and funding for research. Our goal is to create a comprehensive network of support that addresses all aspects of the cancer journey.

8. As we wrap up, do you have a message or lesson you’d like to share about perseverance, healing, and maintaining hope through adversity?

My message to anyone facing adversity is to hold onto hope and never underestimate the power of community. Healing is a journey that requires patience, faith, and the willingness to seek and accept help. Perseverance comes from believing in your own strength and the support of those around you. No matter how difficult the path, remember that you are not alone and that there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

9. For those who feel inspired, how can people support or get involved with your work at Celebrate Life?

Those who feel inspired to support Celebrate Life can get involved in various ways. Volunteering your time, donating to our programs, or participating in our events are all impactful ways to contribute. You can also help by spreading awareness about our mission and the resources we offer. We welcome anyone who wants to join us in creating a supportive and empowering community for cancer survivors. For more information, please visit our website at celebratelifecm.org or contact us at 424-258-5433 (LIFE).